Learning Center: The Town

So today the kids were throwing their toys around and trashing the house. We all have those days and they can be super frustrating…..sitting there thinking why do I buy all these toys? All they do is throw them around! Well we all to often forget that our young toddlers don’t actually know how to play WITH things at all! So we need to teach them how to play….and nicely! Teach how to take turns and play together. Normally these things are learned in mommy and me or a school. But really we can and should be starting at home.

So what I did was I made a town! My kids have a ton of the Fischer price little people and accessories. They also absolutely love playing with them. So while they were asleep I drew up a town on some butcher block paper and taped it down to the floor. Then I put all the different buildings, vehicles, people and accessories into my town.

Before the chaos!

When the kids got up they were super excited to dig into the town I had created! I made a farm area and a construction site with random things I had laying around! My husband and I showed them a few ways to play with the town then we let them go with it. My son added some more LEGO construction and my daughter made it snow with packing peanuts!

Use what you have and get creative! Be free with it too…..have fun and they will have fun. Remember they are absorbing everything and learning through what you do when your interacting with them. I have added a video of making my town and some pictures of my little ones playing! It doesn’t have to be perfect and it’s sure going to get messy but that’s exactly where the fun is!

Enter the chaos!

As always have fun and get messy enjoying your Littles! Leave a comment below and/or a picture of your family enjoying a learning center!!

Magic Milk

Today during virtual mommy and me we had some fun with an experiment! Super simple to do and loads of fun for the Littles. Just 4 simple things that you probably already have on hand. What you will need is milk, food coloring, a bowl and a Q-tip. Get all your supplies before pulling the kiddos in for this one and I would pour the milk for the kiddos (you only will need about an inch of milk in the bowl). A few drops of food coloring in the milk and then you can have your little dip in their Q-tip to watch the ripples. Also they can hold it up high and watch it drip drop down! Again this works with hand eye coordination and colors…..you can use one color or many to see how they mix together. While doing this experiment remember to talk, talk, talk about the colors and what is happening…..every moment to expand that vocabulary/start it up!

This is a super fun activity…..get messy and enjoy their exploration. After its done swirling and mixing they are gonna wanna dive in and splash splash with it! Let them explore its so good for them……and its just a little spilled milk no biggie! Stick an eyedropper or paintbrush in there to let them put it on paper…..let them use that squishy squashy Q-tip on some paper! All of this is great discovery for them and a fun time you can spend laughing with them!

As always get messy and have fun! Remember your doing an amazing job…..even if you don’t think so and even if its a shit show! Leave some comments and pictures of your family enjoying this experiment!!!

Outdoor Play Centers

Sometimes to keep these little ones occupied AND get them tired getting them outside is just the key! I try and set up things to keep them busy. Pop tents, slides, water tables, tumbling mats and other assorted toys! One of their favorites is actually when I put up the teepee and put a bucket of books in there for them!

So I have a 2 year old who is high energy and a 1 year old who is the exact opposite! I like to try to have calmer activities mixed into high energy ones to entice each of them into other activities. So my teepee with books, blanket and tea set is attached by a tunnel to a ball pit with basketball hoop today. I have a tumbling mat with my little tikes slide going onto it. On this mat I also have a few shapes from my climb and crawl set.

Also I have my “science center” (an old water table that is missing the plug so can’t hold water) filled with burrs, flowers, pine cones and sticks we collected on a walk. In my science center I also have toddler friendly magnifying glasses I got from Lakeshore Learning so that they can examine/explore all the things we found while out walking! This is just a fun way to learn about the world around them while playing…..it also gives the opportunity to learn some new words like pine cone! It is sometimes important to remember a lot of teaching in early education is also basics like words and how to manipulate every day items (like looking through a magnifying glass).

If you have the option of a great outdoor space where you can set up a work area and some great play stations for the littles this may be a great way to occupy them. That way everyone enjoys some fresh air AND they are occupied so that you can do some work!

As always enjoy those little ones as much as you can! Leave some comments with pictures of how you and your family enjoyed this post!

Easter Egg Matching

So its after Easter and we have tons of those plastic eggs hanging around right? Well you can use them as a fun learning activity for your little ones! They already love to take them apart and put them together so you can expand on that. The simple act of taking them apart and putting them together is great for working those fine motor skills AND hand eye coordination (SO many of my activities foster that because its super important). You can add to that very easily.

You can make it a matching game for colors, shapes, numbers or letters. You know what I am going to say next…..with a little prep you can make your eggs into a fun activity! Color match is super easy because the eggs are already a variety of colors….you just have to take them apart and guide your little one to matching the colors correctly!

For shapes, letter or numbers all you will need is a sharpie to write on your eggs. On each piece of your egg draw/write a shape/letter/number so that your child can match them together. To make it more challenging for letters/numbers try a uppercase/lowercase combo and a number to quantity combo. For example put a capital A on one side of the egg and a lowercase a on the other side for matching. Or put a number 3 on one side of the egg and 3 dots on the other side of the egg.

To get super fun with this you can also hide them in a sand box letting your little dig around in the sand to find the pieces and then match them afterwards. In this activity you can hide eggs with shapes, colors, numbers and letters to make it super challenging. That last activity could keep an older little one occupied for some time if mom/dad needs to get some work done! Just remember messy is ok and we aren’t looking for perfect here.

For your younger little one just starting out in learning activities there is going to be a lot of hand over hand and you helping them. For those little guys remember that this is all an experience and we want it to be positive. Show them how you want them to do it a few times and then let them explore all the materials. You will want to do it with them a few times more because consistency is how they learn!!

For older friends the goal is independence and an activity that may keep them occupied so that you can get something else done…..or you can work while they “work”! Sometimes its all about how we say things to our little ones that makes all the difference!

Remember that quarantine is hard and confusing for ALL of us and so its okay to get it “wrong”! Its ok if they don’t cooperate (lord knows mine don’t most of the time)! Its ok to not want to! Its ok to feel overwhelmed! YOU are doing a GREAT job with the hand we have all been dealt!!

I don’t always get it right, I don’t always have cooperative kids, I don’t always feel like doing things. I feel overwhelmed sometimes, I feel like a crappy parent sometimes! We all have bad days but remember to count your blessings and love your babies because thats what matters!

As always leave a comment/share a picture of your fun with your family!! Have fun, get messy, LOVE those babies!

FireWife: Having Little Ones

Who else’s kids are having a tough time in quarantine? Yeah mine are not dealing well with the quarantine in general let alone their daddies new chaotic schedule. There are used to having daddy home for longer periods of time in between shifts so their little worlds are all sorts of messed up right now. We are having ALOT of meltdowns and moments of looking out the window calling for dada. Completely heart breaking for mama because there is nothing I can do to fix it for them.

See they are used to not seeing daddy for 24 hours at a time…..though they don’t really realize that its 24 hours its just a long time to them. But normally after 24 hours at the firehouse he is home for 2-3 days before another shift (he will pick up an extra night tour here and there but the kiddos don’t even notice that because they are asleep most of that tour!). Now its gearing up every other day to be without dada for 24 hours and mama is stressed out already…..its so much for them.

Here is the other piece to it the firehouse is so busy there isn’t any time for FaceTime. Also he is FDNY so visits to the firehouse aren’t really a thing…..even less so now because of quarantine and social distancing its straight up not allowed. The kiddos can sense how tired their dada is and I think worry a bit about if he is ok.

So I talk to them…..the are 1 and 2 so how much they understand I have no idea. But what else is a mama supposed to do. I tell them that the there are a lot of sick people right now and so we have to stay inside. I tell them that because of that dada has to go and help more. Help to make sure everyone is ok. Don’t get me wrong I talk to them in general about dada being at work. How he helps people when they are in trouble. He makes sure they are safe. But we can all tell its different now.

My son is also speech and language delayed so he has been recieving his speech services virtually. His speech teacher suggested I make a dada at work and dada at home. That way they could see where he was and it could be a reminder to try and ease the meltdowns. I was a special educator….those things tend to work so I will try it. Anything to help them try to understand what is going on around them!

What are some of you guys experiencing with your kiddos and the change in shifts/craziness going on? How are your kiddos handling all of this? What are some things you have said/done to help your kiddos during this time to cope?

FireWife: Before Shift

All he wants is daddy now when daddy is home.

I don’t know about you but before my husband goes on a shift there are things I do. Lately they are just doing 24’s to reduce the risk of spreading COVID…..and shifts are much more often and sometimes last minute than normal. So these things tend to be every other day now.

We always try to make sure the kiddos get some one on one time with daddy and make sure to sit down to have dinner all together. Its also the night were daddy will do bath time with them so its always a splash fest! I know that the kiddos will really be missing him the next day so watching all their antics warms my heart in a big way. At night while I’m doing my normal cleanup after a day in the life with toddlers I also gather up his stuff into one place. This I do because I am normally baking something for him to bring in the morning and I like to make sure its all together in one spot so he can just grab it while heading out the door in the morning. My fireman is not the most organized at home so he generally can’t find something in the morning and I have no interest in getting woken up at 5 am! He will also try to text me good morning to let me know he got in safely and if he hasn’t by the time I have gotten up I will shoot him a text just to check in. Thats generally also the last time I’ll hear from him for a while, especially if its a busy tour and they sure have been lately.

Those little rituals are almost comforting to me as I prepare for the next 24 hours solo. Yes I know 24 hours may not seem like a lot but it is, so much can happen in 24 hours, and when your alone with 2 kiddos (a 2 year old and a 1 year old) it can seem overwhelming. Don’t get me wrong you get used to the rhythm of it all and sometimes when they have been gone for a long period of time they almost disrupt it! It seems silly but I love to bake for the guys on shift……its my way of saying thank you. Thank you for showing up to do the job you do and thank you for having my husbands back keeping him safe all shift. They also love themselves some chocolate chip cookies and are easy to please although anything you send in will do.

However before a shift there are also those nagging little fears that creep up into your mind and they are sometimes really hard to silence. What if this is the last time he is here sleeping next to me? What if that was the last time the kids will hold their daddy? All those scary what ifs creep up into your mind and sometimes I’ll talk it out with my hubby but most times I silently tell myself that it will never happen. These days those what ifs have tripled in size because during a global pandemic there are so many different ones I’m not used to. I’m am not used to planning with my husband what happens if he can’t come home and needs to quarantine elsewhere for 2 weeks (maybe more). I am not used to discussing what do we do if one of the kids (or I) wake up so sick that you need to come home. SO not used to these conversations but they are a new reality. A reality that changes day by day, so these little rituals before shift have a whole new sense of security to them. It is something I can rely on to not change for the foreseeable future.

What are some of your before shift “rituals”? Leave me some comments and lets connect!

Oobleck Experiment

Today during virtual mommy and me we made Oobleck! This super fun and messy experiment is a really sensory/soothing experiment for kiddos of all ages (including the parents)! This simple experiment only takes 3 ingredients (only 2 are necessary really). As always prep prep prep super important so you are ready to go when your kiddo gets involved. What you will need for this is cornstarch, water and food coloring (the food coloring is just fun but not necessary if you don’t have any). I used some paint bowls that I got at Lakeshore Learning to make this in and gave my kiddos some spoons to stir with as well as little plastic cups with water in it. I like to let them as hands on in making process as possible so they really engaged. Start with about a half cup of cornstarch and then let your kiddo add water (and drops of food coloring) until you get a consistency that looks liquid but is solid once you start to pick it up. When you let it drip into the bowl it should have a jiggly slime consistency. You may have to add more cornstarch as well to get the correct consistency. Put those hands in there and enjoy your jiggly, slimy, goopy oobleck! Below is a video of us experimenting! You can see in the video the consistency you are going for.

As always have fun and enjoy your kiddos! Leave a comment or picture of your family enjoying this experiment!!!

Whipped Cream Easter egg

Happy Easter Everyone!!! We hope you had a fun time with your quarenteam today and did something special! Today we were incredibly lucky that our firefighter was home with us to celebrate…..his schedule just happened work that way this week which was really a blessing! Because he wasn’t home yesterday we saved ALL the Easter fun for today so we could enjoy it together. This year we dyed our Easter eggs with whipped cream and food coloring so we could get our hands into it! My oldest little one LOVES all the the things sensory and spends most of his time covered in some sort of mess, my younger one is really not so much a fan but she will hang out while he becomes a mud bucket. This is a super way to make some really cool looking eggs and to allow your little one to get elbow deep in the action. What you need is food coloring, whipped cream, a metal tin, hard boiled eggs, bowl (for holding eggs) and paper towels. To set up you put whipped cream in your metal container and add drops of food coloring all over. Then swirl the food coloring into the whipped cream (I used my finger lol you could let your little one do this step if you were so inclined!). I would suggest putting down some paper towels for the eggs to rest on once they have been colored. You then add the eggs and let your little one (or everyone) roll them around to get them alllll covered in whipped cream! Take them out and let them rest on a paper towel for a bit. Lastly you wipe off the excess whipped cream and you have some beautiful looking eggs to place in your bowl! This is a great way to do it with little because if they eat the dyed whipped cream its no biggie at all! Below is a video of my little man dying our eggs and above are some pictures of the prep/finished products!

As always have fun with your littles and drop a comment below!

Global Pandemic As A FireWife

Will he get sick? Should he come home? How long is this going to last? Is he gonna get called in tonight…..tomorrow last minute? While he is home do we need anything that I may not be able to go get for the next couple of days? Are we making the right choice? What if I get sick? These are some of the questions running through my brain on a daily basis.

I am a FDNY firewife with 2 toddlers under the age of 3. On a normal every day shift there is worry but you can do a million things to distract yourself from it. Now…..now there isn’t even another adult around to talk to. The anxiety is on a whole other level from what we normally walk with. Typically people will ask omg how do you do it? And honestly you get used to it…..24 hour shifts become normal. The sleep deprived cranky ass version of your spouse you shoo into your bedroom for a couple hours of a nap you know is temporary. Normally you know you will be getting a couple days of him home before another shift so it’s not so bad. Now…..now it’s different. Everything is different. The level of exhaustion is completely different……they can’t just overhaul this problem or put the wet stuff on the hot stuff. This emergency isn’t handled by some muscle and bravery. This…..this is pretty scary. This they can bring home with them…..this can actually hit their homes too.

As a firewife you either learn to live with the schedule and life or you don’t. You can’t tell someone they can’t be apart of a certain career just because your afraid. It works for some and not for others only you can make that choice. It’s fucking hard sometimes! But then there are moments in time like a global pandemic….where fucking hard doesn’t even describe it. Your so greatful to see their faces at the same time your constantly checking everyone’s temperature and listening to breaths. You want them there and at the same time want them to stay away. And every family has to make that choice for themselves…..the question is for how long? For how much longer can we go at this pace? When he is on shift I sometimes sit and cry once the kids are in bed…..I haven’t felt like this since his probie days when I was getting used to the lifestyle. In my head I count to 10 and steady my breathing. I think I’m blessed to have a roof over our heads, supplies in the house, food in the fridge, healthy kids, I’m healthy and we don’t have to worry about our only income bc it is secure. Yes I know I’m blessed In so many BIG ways but let me tell you social isolation can really play with your head. And when he is home, depending on the schedule that he will be pulling for the next couple of days, sometimes he is just resting and showing his face for the kids…..he isn’t really home.

You have no idea how much respect I have for every first responder, doctor, nurse, essential worker out there. But it’s pretty tough over here on this side of it too! I know it’s hard for us all and I send my love out to everyone out there struggling to get through the days. Remember we are all struggling together! And If your spouse/partner is home with you stop for a moment and hug them tight……your lucky to have them there to go through this together.

Easter Egg Paintings

Happy THURSDAY! Just a little day of the week reminder there……it sure is hard to remember some days during this quarentine. Today during our virtual mommy and me group we just did a fun Easter egg painting with the kids. Super duper easy, messy and fun to get ready for Easter this weekend. I would start by watching a fun easter story on youtube or reading one if you have one (I will add a link below)! Then dive right into this fun painting activity which is great for fine motor development, hand eye coordination, and following directions!! You could make this more of a challenge for older kiddos by having coordinating paint and egg colors asking them to match as the go along. OR you could do a “paint by number” challenge by numbering areas taped off on your page (you could also “paint by shape” or “paint by letter)! A great way to pepper in a little number/shape/letter/color ID while getting super messy and getting that sensory exploration play in!

So what you will need: Plastic eggs, paint, construction paper, painters tape, scissors and smocks. I have filmed a little activity prep video for you to see how I prep my activities!

As always enjoy getting messy with those kiddos and please leave some comments/pictures of your fun below!

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